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I intended my question to be directed toward Steven, but I noticed Quentin was
still responding in his own voice. I could have allowed that to stand as it would
have been a safer path, but I sensed the importance of staying with the
discomfort and pressing forward. So, I tried again, this time framing my next
question with greater focus and directness.
Mauricio: It might be interesting for us to transport ourselves back to 2010, right
before Steven passed. And I would like to learn a little bit more about Steven
but from his point of view, from his perspective. Because you knew him
pretty well, I wonder if I could interview you as if you were Steven. So, you
would answer my questions as you think Steven would have. Would that be
something you’d be willing to try?
Quentin: Ok, I can try it.
He seemed curious, but still half-guarded. I sensed that he was beginning to trust
the therapeutic process, and so was willing to entertain my odd request. I felt it
was important to acknowledge my gratitude for his willingness to step into this
exploration with me.
Mauricio: Ok, we can try… thank you. Alright, let me think how we can start…
what to ask first… so this would be back in 2010, ok?
Although the awkwardness still created pauses and hesitation, I was beginning to
feel more ready to transform it into something meaningful. I glanced at an empty
chair in the office and imagined awkwardness sitting there, quietly urging me on:
“Go ahead…”
Quentin: Ok.
In the Company of Awkwardness: Counterstorying Toughness in Therapy
Journal of Contemporary Narrative Therapy, December 2025 Release, p. 88 -106.
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